Splurge on this couples set. “Couples sets are typically designed for hetero couples,” Mintz says, but they allow for a lot of creativity and connection. There’s the Onyx masturbator for him, then the Pearl2 G-spot vibrator for her. You can each play with each other simultaneously through the Kiiroo platform on your computers or devices.
This powerful egg has eight different wave patterns. You can control it hands-free using the Desire app, or let bae do the work while you relax. It’s meant to be whisper-quiet, so your roommate on a Zoom call in the next room will have no idea what’s happening.
The Nora rabbit vibrator was made for long-distance sex. It’s built for simultaneous G-spot and clit stimulation, so you can feel like your partner is right there with you (they can, of course, connect into the app and hop in the driver’s seat).
During times like these, you (or your partner) need your very own magic wand that connects to the We-Connect app. It comes with a flutter sleeve, designed for clitoral stimulation, as well a penis sleeve. And with 10 different modes, there’s something for everyone.
The super bendy Crescendo vibe is designed to be flexible enough to conform to your body. Your person can have some fun by syncing up to the MysteryVibe app and sending a combo of 12 different vibration patterns your way. Bzzz.
Why not involve your partner in some kegel training (spoiler: exercising your pelvic floor muscles will make in-person sex that much better when you reunite). Just download the Elvie Training app and let the workout begin.
The Zalo queen G-spot vibrator isn’t just theoretically hot: It actually heats up to slightly above your body temperature, about 107 degrees Fahrenheit, as you get it going. When you slip the suction sleeve on, it’ll feel like your partner is right there going down on you, even though they’re just doing it through the app.
And when you finally do get to have sex IRL, it will feel amazing against your clit, too
This bluetooth-controlled bullet vibrator gives whoever’s controlling the app DJ privileges too. That’s right: You can sync up your orgasms to the tune of your favorite song in your music library through the Lovense app. And, if that weren’t tech-savvy enough, your partner can tune into your pleasure from literally anywhere in the world using their Apple watch.
The OhMiBod app gives you an option of playing “locally” or “remotely.” If you connect it to the Kiiroo Onyx masturbator, it’s the closest to real sex you can get: Your partner can feel your movements simulated through their toy on the other end. What a world!
Let your partner take the reins with this app-controlled vibrator by We-Vibe, which is best known for doling out blended orgasms (a.k.a. when your G-spot and clit are stimulated-at the same time).
You can control this Bluetooth-enabled vibrator from anywhere in the world. It also includes a chat function, so you can sext away while changing up the vibrations.
This Bluetooth-enabled vibrator syncs with erotica audio books, so you and your partner can listen together-all the way to the sexy climax.
Some people have codes they send each other, like an emoji, that lets them know theyre in the mood, or a stop sign emoji that means stop. “You want to know your partner’s do’s and don’ts of phone sex,” says Howard, “And you always want to get consent first.”
9. Ease into phone sex.
If you start to get in your head (“I feel ridiculous” or “This is kinda weird”), go back to your own heart rate, breath, and even body temp, says Brito. This will help you stay present and in the mood.
Skyler suggests doing the same thing you would if you were physically together. “Have that reflection period that is part of the human sexual response,” she says. The reflection period is when the sexual process is done and you cuddle, connect, reflect on what was fun and exciting, and talk about next time.